Seriously, she needs to cut the umbilical chord. She won’t let me go to any friends houses that she hasn’t met. She won’t let me sleep over anywhere. She won’t let me pick out my own frikin clothes for school, because she says I like to wear ‘tight’ stuff, when I hate the baggy mess she picks out for me! I’d be fine with normal fitting stuff, though. My mom is cool about me wearing lipgloss, nailpolish, eyeshadow(even though i don’t use any) and wearing high heels if I felt like it, but why won’t she ease up with the friends? She says I have to act like a child more because I don’t go outside and play I go on the computer and chat and write novels and stuff. My friend NiNi(nickname, lol) lives right up the street and she dosen’t have a dad so a man can’t do anything to me(something my mom stresses about) and her younger brother is 5. I told my mom I’d call every 25 minutes if she wanted, and I don’t even have to sleep over, but she’s like no! I think I have made comprimises that always go in her favor, but she is just so difficult! But my sister(who is 15) gets to go to BOYS houses, even if my mom never met them! My mom lets my little brother who is five go to people she dosen’t know houses, it is JUST ME.



February 6th, 2010 at 12:01 am
IF YOUR THE ONLY CHILD YOUR MOTHER JUST WANTS TO KEEP YOU THE LONGEST PERIOD OF TIME AS HER BABY AND SHE PROBABLY JUST WANTS YOU TO STAY A BABY FOREVR MY MOM DOES THE SAME THING
February 6th, 2010 at 12:01 am
Relax. I’m guessing there was something you might had done in the past, which might be why she doesn’t trust you. Or maybe she heard a scary story of which she heard something that happened to another girl while at a friend’s home. My best idea is to just sit down and let her know that you love her and that you would ever do anything that would displease her. Say you are fine without sleepovers for now. And also, make sure you are always doing what she asks, and doing things she would approve of. Hope this helps!
February 6th, 2010 at 12:01 am
that means she worries more about you, in other words she loves you more or it’s more attached to you in a way, but don’t worry almost all moms are the Same…. At least my mom is the same… And I’m a 16 year old guy!
February 6th, 2010 at 12:01 am
Maybe she wouldn’t treat you like an infant if you stopped acting like one.
February 6th, 2010 at 12:01 am
That gotta be tough but my advice is that you respect your mom and do as she wishes. Don’t go do things she doesn’t want you doing (even if its vivsiting a friend down the street) behind her back. Don’t let her lose trust in you so that when she thinks your old enough to go out to friends houses, she will let you.
It hurts me to see people talking about their mothers the way you do on here because SOME people don’t even have mothers. Appreciate what you’ve got and don’t let her lose trust in you.